NOTE: Basya or Baska
was my Grandma BessieÕs Russian name. This letter was written by her brother
Mikhail from Ekaterinoslav. The letter was dated
July 12, 1913, and reached her just before she left for America. This was the
first letter we pulled out of the jumble of letters in the bag, and it turned to be the very first letter.
Dear Baska,
Your letter with a picture of your house
and a postcard from the wedding I have received, and I am very
grateful
for this letter and the pictures. My dear sister, I am very sad I could not say
goodbye to you personally.
Four years ago, I didn't believe someone
from our family could go to the United States, but what can you do,
not
everything can be done the way you want it. I want terribly to look at you [before
you go]. I would like to see
you before your departure--but this is
impossible. That's why I am so happy to get the picture. I can say goodbye
while looking at your face. I look at your face and wish for you
everything you want in a new place.
Forgive me that till now I didn't write
you. I am afraid this letter might miss you. There has been so much
work
in the store and it's been so hot, it's been hard to write. OK, Baska, let's say goodbye in a letter.
First have a safe trip and a happy life
in America. Let your life in America be your reward for all the sufferings
you've had before. Let God bless you and give you strength and health to
settle in a new place, and have
everything you want in your new life.
But listen Baska, do not forget about us. We will
worry about you if you
don't write to us often. You know how much we
love each other and how much we are devoted to each other.
Never forget
about us. Therefore you must write to us all the time and about everything. I
agree and I approve of
your decision and I am glad for it. Good
girl. I hope it won't take you long to settle into living in America, and
to get work and have pleasure. Keep your spirit high. Be energetic, have hope.
Do not lose your spirit under any
circumstances. And look energetically
through the eyes of life. I am sure you will be satisfied that you left.
Maybe we will have a chance to meet again--everything is possible.
Forgive me Baska, but I know that you
did not see many people in your life and seldom had relationships and
therefore listen to the advice of an older brother. Don't be too
trustful with people you don't know, especially in a
foreign land. Be
cautious, there are many bad people, actually more bad people than good people.
I am telling
this to you in general, because you are just a young woman
who hasn't seen the big world.
I promise to you I will write, and I ask
you to write to me here. When you'll be on the ship, definitely send me a
postcard. And especially on the day of your arrival in New York. Please know, Baska, that I am exactly the
same Mikhail [Michael]
who loves you all and never forgets anyone. I was only too lazy to write. But I
won't
change. I won't become a cold person to you. My soul is always
with you and feels for you, I feel pain if you do. But right now, I cannot help
you with anything because of how circumstances have changed for the worse.
[end missing]
Mikhail
Rapoport